To start, mix the French vanilla pudding with the milk. Allow the pudding to set in the fridge about 5 minutes. While waiting, start chopping up the fruit. Quick note: you can stack things as normal, especially if you don't have a glass bowl. I placed things like that for fancy photos.
After the 5 minutes, mix in the cream cheese, condensed milk and fold in the 12 oz. of the cool whip. Save some cool whip for the top layer.
Begin to layer the cookies, banana and strawberries. Make the layers and add the pudding between each layer until you run out of pudding. That'll be the last layer.
To finish the bowl off, place a topping of cool whip across the top of the bowl. Next, place the bowl in the refrigerator for about 2-3 hours then serve and enjoy.